It’s Time To Take Back Your Life
As time goes on and you become more mature , you have probably learned that you live in a society where people are pressured to see their mistakes as something “negative”. This forces us to feel guilty every time we make a mistake in our daily lives.
If you still do not believe that mistakes are masked life lessons, please let me explain how they benefit sensible and extraordinary people like ourselves.
Your personal mistakes and the things you perceive as shortcomings are really steps that allow you to develop and shape your life.
Why? Because they give you little clues along the way, and when you overcome them , they can help you move forward and build your life.
What is the price you will receive thanks to this? The gift of knowing how to confront all obstacles that come your way in a positive and productive way.
Over time, I have learned that during personal development, we undergo a transformation before and after.
The “before” part suggests what you used to be: the way you were before you made the mistakes that have shaped and tormented you. And the piece “after” includes the person living inside you today, who feels guilty on a daily basis for having made these mistakes. And because of this, you become depressed and see virtually no reason to enjoy life.
If you take a few minutes to reflect on the person you were before you made that mistake, you will allow yourself to question what things are limiting you in the moment and discover how they have affected you today. These are the walls you have to climb over so that you can move on and continue to be a better person.
When you think back on your life story, you may notice one important detail: your own heart begs you to regain control of your life, of your personal experience.
It sends out the message that it’s time to go back to the person you used to be before you made these mistakes: a dreamer, without barriers or boundaries. To take back the brilliant version of you; a person who creates his own beauty… What your heart wants.
Making mistakes and being confused are normal parts of life. Remember that there is a great positive side to everything in life, and a much greater learning experience than the experience of the consequences of mistakes.
This is how you become aware of your limitations as a person. You become aware that you are one with the world; you are not alone and you need to share, listen and empathize with those around you.
You have to test yourself, challenge yourself to overcome your adversity. Understand this experience, take the negativity from it and make it yours, make it a part of your experience and apply it in a positive way.
Fully understanding your mistakes will allow you to make peace with them, and as a consequence you will have the power to turn everything you do into something amazing.
Regain the power to be in a place where no one can hurt you, and where the decisions you make are your decisions, which come from the heart without judgment and without emotional chaos.
There will come a time when, thanks to all this, you dare to take back your life from the deepest, purest part of yourself. With a twist: to be yourself, you must feel whole and at peace with the person you are and always will be.
If that’s really how you feel about fearless, unconditional love, remember that everything happens for a reason. Everything is worth it. You are so incredibly worth it.
