Live And Then Think

We often forget that we can only live once and that it is not about having the best life or suffering as little as possible; it’s about fighting for the life we’ve always dreamed of. It’s about making your life a path that matches who you are. It’s about choosing, not just opting out.

Let’s see where you stand and how you can change if you really want to.

We all know what uncertain positions we may end up in, but we must neutralize the effects of this uncertainty when it comes time to make decisions and confront life.

• What can you do that is really useful in your life because you are doing well and have a passion for it?
• What kind of people do you want to take with you through all the emotional terrain, at work, as friends … etc.?

It seems like two very easy questions. Immediately some thoughts will come to mind, such as: “I can not”, “I should not”, “I have a responsibility”…

Have you not come to the conclusion that the search for the most sincere answers will put you on the threshold of the life you want to live from now on?

And that for every excuse you make when you answer these questions, you will come even closer to the life you live now; that you do not seem completely at home in. If not, I doubt you even considered the question.

So we find ourselves in a dilemma: do I continue to live the life I live now or do I risk certain things from my current position to improve, knowing that I can lose everything?

We should not even pretend that an article can solve a dilemma in such a simple and pretentious way. Therefore, we will talk about two ways of living: one with positivity and the other with negativity. Your heart and mind will give you the answer.

When we think about how we live, we assume that the situation is difficult to solve.

Maybe we’ve been wrapped up in the same incredible circumstances for years, and we’re trying to solve and deal with them in the best possible way. We have no other choice.

A mature person would confront this whole situation with pain, but also with a desire to build a better life.

We realize that many people give up when faced with urgent needs; they prefer to choose a safer, easier path. This does not mean that there is no happiness in that path because many accept it in a good way. However, others become frustrated when faced with a phase of “chosen” change.

If you think and then live:

• Will you achieve more security because you will not oppose working on what you need to move forward.
• You will have stability because the people who walk the same path have accepted the fact that this is the path of life and that no reproaches should appear.
• Your conscience will be calm because you did your best in the worst of circumstances. You will not have taken the path you wanted, but you have made the path you chose as good as it can be, and that is an undeniable achievement.

When you live as you think, there is nothing left to adjust between what you want to do and what you do. Between the people you think you should surround yourself with and the people who currently surround you, between your personal decisions and the decisions that society forces on you.

This is the path of willpower and passion – a path that sometimes does not exactly lead to success, but that makes you happy.

Live and then think like this:

• Will you have less security or get it later in life, but for you, happiness in life lies in developing your passion.
• You will not have a stable schedule, accommodation or the same people with you all the time. But you will be filled with the illusion that every day is a new adventure to discover.
• We do not know if your conscience will be very calm or not because you are on this path. At first, you may have seemed somewhat radical and like someone who did not give sufficient explanations. Maybe you did something that society did not consider right, but all this disappears when happiness arrives.

• You took the road you wanted, and you enjoyed it. So losses do not matter much when you feel bubbling on the chosen path.