You’ve Never Seen Me Naked Or Listened To My Dreams

You’ve never seen me naked or listened to my dreams. The passage of time has put my dreams on the shelf and we thought we would never find each other again. I have now realized that I have spent so much time waiting and daydreaming. If you are truly in love, there is nothing that should change. The desire to be together and face difficulties should increase over time.

I have also realized that the intimate encounters we idealize so much are nothing more than dust clouds that distract you from knowing the truth about the person you are embracing. To be naked in front of someone is to show that you are ready to do it despite all the pitfalls and all the drama along the way. I now realize that all the nudity that was shown was my vulnerability, but you did not understand the meaning behind this because you have never seen me naked.

You’ve never seen me naked, taking off your clothes is not the same as undressing your soul.

Even if you are naked, sometimes what goes through your mind is a mixture of passivity and movement and passion. You are silent because you think you may be hindering the development of passion.

You have conversations about the future, about what you expect and what you avoid. But how can you believe in the language of hugs if it is only a moment for one person and an eternity for the other? When two souls feel peace, war should not be declared in silence. It is good to talk about fears, expectations and feelings.

How can the relationship develop normally if you do not know your partner’s dreams, ideas about life or what makes him happy?

To be naked in front of your partner to achieve real intimacy

Those who give up in front of another person do not expect anything less than the same intimacy in exchange. But they expect it without asking for all the kisses, hugs, passion and everything else inside them that floats to the surface. When you hide how you feel, it is not free love; you have become a prisoner.

You can not enjoy romantic love if you hide your hopes and dreams from your partner. People can hide these things due to the fear of being hurt or the avoidance that comes with a poor understanding of what commitment means. Commitment is not serving a sentence. It is to live according to how one feels.

You may want to wait for the fear to go away, but you will still wait until your life ends without knowing who you really are. It may be a risk you do not want to take, but if you avoid taking it, you will never know how someone can fit into your dreams.

Zeigarnik effects

There is no worse nostalgia than longing for what has never existed, and there is no worse certainty than knowing that something good has disappeared forever. It is said that open endings and unfinished stories are more interesting and that people better remember unfinished tasks. This is known in psychology as the Zeigarnik effect.

But the effects that apply to memories do not apply to desire and remorse. You will not have a funny memory of something you love being taken from you. It will only show how cowardly you were at that moment. You stand there silent and naked and you have lost a love that will be drawn into eternity.